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Film · 2019

So Long, My Son

Original titleDi jiu tian chang

Directed by Xiaoshuai Wang · starring Liya Ai, Du Jiang and Jingjing Li

  • 3 h
  • Drama
  • China
  • Released in the UK 5 December 2019
  • 7.2 AverageMovieNCo
  • 6.9 Users4 votes
  • 7.5 Critics2 reviews

Synopsis

Yaojun (Wang Jingchun, 'To Live and Die in Ordos', 'Shadow') and his wife Liyun (Yong Mei, 'The Assassin', 'You Are My Lover') are content with the way that their lives are going until tragedy strikes and their young son, Xingxing, drowns after wading into a reservoir despite not knowing how to swim. Deeply pained by their loss, Yaojun and Liyun relocate to a more urban setting in which they are more isolated than ever due to not understand a local dialect. They adopt a son on whom they also bestow the name of Xingxing, as though he is a replacement for the child they lost. Their relationship with their new son is immediately one of conflict, as Xingxing runs away from them, rejecting his parents due to their seemingly 'foreign' nature and leading to the couple returning back to the town where they lost their son all those years ago.

'So Long, My Son' spans three decades of China's history, using an intimate family portrait to explore the issues present in the backdrop of the Cultural Revolution, one child policy and financial upheaval.

'So Long, My Son' is directed by Xioshuai Wang ('Chinese Portrait', 'The Cornfield', 'Shanghai Dreams') and is written by Wang in collaboration with Mei Ah ('Under the Hawthorn Tree', 'The Law of Attraction').

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The essentials

Runtime
180 min3 hours
How long is So Long, My Son?
3 hours (180 minutes).
When was So Long, My Son released in the UK?
It was released in the UK on 5 December 2019.
Who directed So Long, My Son?
Xiaoshuai Wang.
Who is in So Long, My Son?
It stars Liya Ai, Du Jiang, Jingjing Li and Wang Jingchun.
Where can I watch So Long, My Son?
In the UK it is available free on Pluto TV and to rent on Apple TV.
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Director
Xiaoshuai Wang
Writers
Xiaoshuai Wang

Photos and posters

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Reviews

All 3 reviews
6.9 4 votes

What the critics say average 7.5 from 2 outlets

  • 9.0 VarietyJessica Kiang "Utterly wrenching". Read
  • 6.0 The Hollywood ReporterDeborah Young "A long, leisurely drama directed with self-assurance". Read
  • El MundoLuis Martínez ?The film tells three decades of the country's recent history. And it does so in a virtuous puzzle in which the past, the present and an uncertain future are composed and decomposed with dazzling… Read

Soundtrack

All 2 songs
  1. Rivers of BabylonBoney M. Spotify
  2. Auld Lang SyneTraditional tune, Robert Burns

Trivia

  • Berlinale 2019

    The film, that was released at the 2019 Berlinale, won two awards at this Festival: Best Actor and Best Actress.

  • Time filming

    'So long, my son' was filmed in 3 months.

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